ladies vs gentleman

entry kali nih is based on a few observation yg cik nur buat... lelaki lebih sensitive soal technical... kalau ada masalah technical... sometimes it could be like the end of the world for them... major problem... money... then maybe kereta.. rumah.. motor.. apa saja yg boleh diketogorikan sbg material...

wanita... they are emotionally attached... loving.. caring.. sensitive.."emotional".. whatever involve people and feelings... hati derang lebih terusik kalau someone is hurt then kereta tu dah seminggu rosak...

the point here is... now.. look at different angle... kenapa Allah menciptakan satu makhluk... iaitu manusia.. yg ada 2 jantina berbeza... but the tugas in this world is still sama... to be the slave of Allah... and to be the khalifah di muka bumi... ????

jgn jadikan technically or emotionally attached ini sbg satu kelemahan.. itulah kekuatan sebenarnya... Allah jadikan lelaki technically attach sbb tu Allah bagi peluang lelaki kawin 4... sbb derang sensitive with the zahir stuff... and masyaAllah.. try la suruh oang laki mengandung.. tak ke kesian kat derang tu.. tak payah suruh mengandung.. letak 2 biji batu seminggu suh pi jalan kat uni.... think of this...

guys always look down on women because they are emotionally attached... but emotional is not a weakness... if this two elements are combined insyaAllah... satu keluarga muslim yg harmoni and faham islam akan wujud... Allah jadikan wanita untuk melengkapi lelaki.. dan Allah jadikan lelaki utk melengkapi wanita... setiap kejadian itu tidak sia2... pastinya kejadian wanita yg "emotional" tidak sia sia...

at the end.. everything has to be according to al quran and sunnah... u cant just use the reason Allah created us to be emotional bla bla bla as an escapism for something... then comes the mujahadatun nafs... struggle... sama la jugak mcm lelaki... jgn jadikan ini sbg alasan... itu lah ujian namanya...

as a conclusion... dont look down on the other creature...allah created everybody for some reason... and it is us to realize it and put it into action...

p/s>> generalization.. tak semua lelaki dan perempuan mcm nih... tapi at least element nih ada gak la walaupun sedikit.. cuma sedar or tidak je