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finally... finishes the maths paper.. cis... normal la tu... mesti ada soalan tatau nak buat... kan best kalau sume exam.. every soalan kita confident dgn jawapan dia... abaikan.. dah lepas... u've done the best... next week... on tuesday... igneous petrology exam... worth 5%... friday... sedimentology project proposal... 15%... ape nih... nak propose ape..??? topic pun tak dek .. suruh propose...

average efficiency

this semester's average efficiency mcm decline... merosot.. pada tahap... hmmmpphhh yg agak kritikal.. kalau dulu... at least seminggu before hantar assignment... dah siap... printed...... last sem... 2 3 hari... this sem... esok mid day nak hantar.. malam baru terhegeh2 nak buat reference... hmmpphhh.... one month punye assignment dah dpt topic... this sem... this fri nak hantar... topic pun tak dak lagi... cam mana nih labu... ape dah jadi nih???? hahh???? where have u been...????? what have u done all semester????? cut the crap kimah!!!! its not time to play anymore... no more jokes... the draft exam timetable dah kuar... aaarrghhh tension....
cool... relax laa... <<<<< kata hati kecil...
kan bnyk komitment... last year.. amik 4 subjects... this year... 5 beb.... last year.. tak kerja... this year dah jadi ada responsibility... at least one lecture per week kene attend balik... mlm kene prepare... last year... things are not so serious... u r just the follower... this year... u have to do something... u r not just the follower anymore... kay... cool.... relax... its just the matter of time... masa tu makhluk Allah jugak.. pandai jaga masa... insyaAllah... cool kay... stay calm...

hmmpphh

siapa has.. siapa toksik.. tak kenal la... lumrah la.. nama pun world wide web... what can u expect... privacy??? nak privacy sgt.... invent la private punye website... to all the outsiders... apa yg baik jadikan pengajaran... yg buruk... pijak2 dan campak jauh2... tapi kalau yg buruk tu nak jadikan pengajaran jugak.. lantak hangpa laa...

sepanjang minggu bnyk sebenarnye idea2 yg nak ditaip... tapi sbb exam kan... so... kiv dulu... sampai la nih... dah tak dak mood dah nak menaip... meh la... kita start citer baru...


lelaki vs perempuan

saidina ali kata... ada 3 perkara yg buruk bagi lelaki tapi baik bagi wanita... pertama...
1. membesar diri... bila seorang wanita membesarkan diri... maka dia tak dek la nak cakap lemah longlai dengan lelaki... keras... cakap pada waktunya... maka terjaga lah maruah dia... dan kalau dia dan keluarganya...
2. bakhil... lelaki tak elok bakhil.. kene jadi dermawan.. tapi wanita... bagus.. sbb terjagalah harta suaminya...
3. penakut... lelaki kalau penakut... fuh dayus beb... tapi perempuan mmg kene jadi penakut... supaya dia duk dlm rumah je sbb dia takut keluar rumah... so dia tak keluar la... maka terjaga lah dia dari fitnah dunia... bayangkan kalau perempuan stok muke mcm cik nur nih pergi dengan berani nya jalan dekat lorong haji taib ke sorang2... huhuhuhu.... kan ke dah lain bunyinya tuu....

tips menjawab soalan

why dont muslim eat pork..???
why do you have to cover from head to toe???
can u go to the beach..???
can u have a night out???

soalan2 mcm nih... selalu ditanya... kalau tak ditanya direct.. mesti dlm gut feeling org2 yg tak faham islam yg sebenar tu pasti akan tertanya2...
masa field trip hari tu... ada 2 3 org kawan2 yg frankly mengaku... depa tak pernah tau pasal islam.. org yg first jessica tgk pakai tudung adalah cik nur... pelik kot...

tapi ok tips utk tackle bentuk soalan mcm nih... cik nur categorise kan soalan ini soalan nak tahu.. or curious... dan sort of soalan surface la jugakk... sbb soalan2 nih tak masuk bab fundamental... spt akidah... cth soalan pasal akidah... "we chirstian love god.. but muslim fear god... that's why they just follow what god has command them to do... bla2 bla... "<<<< nih kita masuk bab kedua tips menjawab soalan...

ok bagi soalan yg kind of surface nih... firstly depa tanya mmg nak tau... or tak dek point pun depa tanya... bila dpt peluang nak tanya depa tanya lah... secondly... depa nak try provoke ... bentuk soalan provoke pun kengkadang lain... tapi u can tell by the intonation...

ok ... daripada pengalaman cik nur... selalunya org perempuan lah yg tanya cik nur soalan2 nih... jadi...yg penting... pagi si penjawab... bukan utk menjawab soalan... sbb org yg tanya tu.. nak taknak depa mesti ada view pasal apa yg depa nak tanya... at least depa mesti ada expectation jawapan cam mana... kan tasawwur itu penting...

build repo dulu... maknenye... tanya depa balik.. and usahakan supaya depa view satu2 problem itu ikut nur islam... at least ikut fitrah manusia yg sebenar... then jawab... tapi kalau boleh jgn terus jawab... terangkan apa islam view pasai menda tu.. and make sure yg cara penerangan itu bagi depa nampak islam nih agama yg syumul... lagi bagus kalau diselitkan dengan attribute of Allah..... kalau ada scientific reason... KIV dulu... pastikan apa yg islam nak terangkan pasal satu2 isu tu diterangkan dulu baru cakap pasal scientific.... ok contohnya... pasal pork/....

"why dont muslim eat pork... we breed clean pork now... they eat vitamin... scientificcally proven that pork doesnt contain any bad bacteria anymore...??"

bagi approach dgn baik... senyum...
"sister... are u willing to eat your own pooh... a.k.a shit??"
pastu dia sure jawab ... mestilah tidak kan...
pastu pi tanya dia balik... apa yg pork makan... to the extent sampai mana dia tau yg tahap kebersihan khinzir tu mcm mana... (turn the conversation supaya dia yg banyak jawab.. sbb org yg bertanya adalah the one yg control the conversation)...

then... dah agak2 boleh masuk.. masuk la... maybe boleh buat mcm nih...

God is unique... and He got all the attribute of infinite and uniqueness.... He is the most forgiving.. the merciful.. the compansionate... and justice also is one of the attribute of God... if we said that australian civil court is just... God is the most just... in islam... God gives reward to man according to their dids... why did God made 7 heavens instead of just one heaven... is because there are different levels of iman/faith and piety among the believers... and vice versa.. there are 7 hells ...

when we talk about justice.. and God being the most just... there is also different level of filth/dirt... and pig... is the lowest one.... why???
everything that has been created by God has its own responsibility in this world... and God has made man... to be the khalifah of this world... God make trees for us to eat... for us to make beautiful houses... God made the ocean wide for us to take tressure out of it... God make u to meet me... :)... and every single thing in this world are not just there because of no reason...

pig was created by God at the time of Noah... one of the prophet... when they sail in this big gigantic ship... the animals and human at that time have no where to poo their own pooh... except in the ship itself... and God created pig to clean the dirt...

so... because the purpose of pig's creation are not meant to be eaten... they are for cleaning stuff... God ask the man for not eating pig because of the consequences that might happen if we eat it... even... there is a certain way to clean ourselves and things that have been touched by pig... remember God is the all knower. He knows things that we do not know...

if you r not willing to eat your own pooh... how can u eat pork... i tell u... if new invented pork eat vitamin.. but of course they still have their ancestor's blood... and their ancestor's have not only eat other animal's shit... but their own shit... so they have been sort of double shitted...

maybe ada cara lain jugak nak jawab.. tapi setakat nih cara nih memuaskan hati org yg tanya... at least kita dah bagi view pasal islam yg sebenar...

mcm tu jugak soalan lain... selalunya perempuan lebih selalu ditanya... sbb they are visibly different... dan soalan kalau berkaitan perempuan.. tak kesah la lelaki ke perempuan yg tanya... jawab soalan... tunjukkan yg islam pandang tinggi dan tujuan islam buat suma2 tu sbb nak angkat martabat perempuan...

soalan2 nih selalu berkitar tentang... pergaulan... sexual.. marriage... hijab... jawab lah dengan hikmah... kaitkan dengan inheritance... fitrah.. kebersihan... dan apa saja berkaitan islam...

cik nur bukan apa... kengkadang tak puas hati dengan orang islam yg suka amik mudah menda2 nih... mmg la kita buat semua tu sbb Allah suruh... sbb kita dah islam kan dan insyaAllah bagi org yg beriman .. kita tak perlu question all these..... tapi yg org tanya nih depa bukan tau apa... depa tanya sbb depa nak tau.. skali kalau dpt org tu tanya apsal tak leh nih..>>> sbb Allah suruh.. apasal kene nih>>> sbb Allah suruh.. apsal buat cara nih tak buat cara lain.. >>>sbb Allah suruh.. nanti dlm kepala otak depa... islam nih agama ikutan... semua di buat sbb suruh... (ingat manusia ada ego... )... mesti depa lagi tanak dekat bila depa paham ini agama yg strict... tak flexible.. and kene ikut je... padahal islam tak mcm tu... (benda nih kene discuss lagi... hopefuly korang yg baca faham to the extent apa yg ciknur maksudkan pasal kestrictkan and keflexiblean ini...)

yg baik datang dari Allah... suma hak Allah.... apa2 komen... letak la kat guestbook
... ok... tschuss...

p/s--- dpt sekali kepada sesiapa yg mengomen kata lama tak update... nah rasakan... hheheh